Thursday, 24.3

We must also realize that nothing happens without a purpose. Nothing. Not even broken hearts. Not even pain. That broken heart and that pain are lessons and signs for us. They are warnings that something is wrong. They are warnings that we need to make a change. Just like the pain of being burned is what warns us to remove our hand from the fire, emotional pain warns us that we need to make an internal change. We need to detach. Pain is a form of forced detachment. Like the loved one who hurts you again and again and again, the more dunya hurts us, the more we inevitably detach from it. The more we inevitably stop loving it. After years of falling into the same pattern of disappointments and heartbreak, I finally began to realize something profound. I had always thought that love of dunya meant being attached to material things. And I was not attached to material things. I was attached to people. I was attached to moments. I was attached to emotions. So I thought that the love of dunya just did not apply to me. What I didn’t realize was that people, moments, emotions are all a part of dunya. What I didn’t realize is that all the pain I had experienced in life was due to one thing, and one thing only: love of dunya


“Allah gives us gifts, but then we come to love them as we should only love Him. We take those gifts and inject them into our hearts, until they take over. Soon we cannot live without them. Every waking moment is spent in contemplation of them, in submission and worship to them. The mind and the heart that was created by Allah, for Allah, becomes the property of someone or something else. And then the fear comes. The fear of loss begins to cripple us. The gift—that should have remained in our hands—takes over our heart, so the fear of losing it consumes us. Soon, what was once a gift becomes a weapon of torture and a prison of our own making. How can we be freed of this? At times, in His infinite mercy, Allah frees us…by taking it away.
As a result of it being taken, we turn to Allah wholeheartedly. In that desperation and need, we ask, we beg, we pray. Through the loss, we reach a level of sincerity and humility and dependence on Him which we would otherwise not reach—had it not been taken from us. Through the loss, our hearts turn entirely to face Him.” 

Effort.

It's not that hard to take care of someone who you love. Nowadays, people tend to show off their love to the world, needing validation of a relationship but once they got the one they wanted, they stop showing the love, not to the world but to the one who needs it the most. Efforts matters a lot in a relationship. You tried so hard to get their attention and having them in your arms, so why once you've got them? We can lose everyone in a blink of an eye, they won't be yours forever once you stop making efforts to them. It's the simplest things we often miss, it's not that hard to keep someone in lives. Listen to them, ask them questions that could piqued their interest, or the things that they do, ask them how their day was,just listen. Learn to talk less about yourself and listen to what others have to say. Let them know you still care even you're busy. Make little gifts to them, only if you're sincere about it. You don't have to necessary buy expensive gifts, you can learn make them, even a little sticky notes with handwritten messages would mean the world to them. Remind them their beauty, how amazing they really are, make them feel good about themselves, make them love themselves more. Take their hand and guide them throughout life, steer them away from all the bad things and bring them closer to all things that brings good. Don't give up on each other, have faith that it it's meant to be, it will be. And you've done all those things and they still left you, then make them regret letting you go, start focusing on yourself. All you have to do is fix yourself, make yourself a better person and the right one will come to you right in time. Everyone in this world was made into existence with someone meant for them. If you have them in your life now, appreciate them,sherish them,take care of them,tream them right because some people never had the chance to truly experience it. It won't be now but someday you'll have that someone that will be willing to do all those things to you too. Don't break people,you won't know how much damage you can do just by breaking their hearts. What goes around,comes around.

BLESSING

We are all in need of Allah. Our life, the breath we take, our talks, our movements are all in control of Allah and they all happen by the Will of Allah.

Allah created all people with lots of inability and in need of Himself. But they are not aware of this. A vast majority of people thinks that everything develops spontaneously, or that they acquire everything by their own efforts. Whereas everything and every situation is created by Allah. All the blessings are bestowed upon people by Allah and Allah is the One Who gives them to those He will. Most people neglect to give thanks to Allah for the blessings He bestows upon them however the first word they utter when others give them a present is "thanks". Whereas as Allah states in the 18th verse of Surah an-Nahl, he give countless blessing to those in their whole life.

If you tried to number Allah’s blessings, you could never count them. Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surah an-Nahl, 18)

Satan prevents most people from being thankful to him. He makes people ignore Allah’s blessings. Allah states this in Surah Al Araf;

Then I will come at them, from in front of them and behind them, from their right and from their left. You will not find most of them thankful.’He said, ‘Get out of it, reviled and driven out. As for those of them who follow you, I will fill up Hell with every one of you.’ (Surah Al-A’raf 17-18)

Giving thanks to Allah for everything is one of the most important characteristics of believers. We know everything is created by Allah and we always give thanks to Him for our health, beauty, wealth, knowledge, wisdom, understanding, insight shortly for all the things we have material and spiritual.

There is a secret in the Quran. Allah states that he will increase His blessings on those who are grateful. For example Allah grants more health to those who gives thanks to Him for the health. He will increase the wealth of those who give thanks to Him for wealth. 

And when your Lord announced: "If you are grateful, I will certainly give you increase, but if you are ungrateful, My punishment is severe."' (Surah Ibrahim: 7)

Being thankful is a sign of the believers love of Allah. Those who are thankful have the insight and capability to see the beauties and blessings that Allah creates. Those who disbelieves or unthankful to Allah only see the imperfections and faults. And because of that they are always unhappy and discontented. 

Whereas believers never forget that Allah creates everything with good and even if the things don’t goes by the way they want they still be thankful to Allah. In every situation they turn Allah with sincerity and and they are always thankful. Under the hardest conditions they trust Allah and know there is  good in every event. Believes always hope gift of Paradise from Allah if they rejoice and feel thankful. 

Therefore, Allah promises to believers to expand His blessings on His grateful servants both in the life of this world and in the hereafter, because of their trust and blessings to Him

No! Worship Allah and be among the thankful. (Surah Az-Zumer)

2K16

Assalamualaikum. So this is my first post in 2k16. The reason why i back on blog is because i think i need to. There's a lot of things i want to share about my life(good and bad) so......just wait. I do believe that this new year(awal tahun lagi la kan,baru january) will bring me a lot of new experiences inshaaAllah, i hope so. I got a lot of things i wanna share. Especially my life here,in dungun(erm...) So Dungun..ok dungun. Ok la not bad la kot. I got new roomates new kolej yang mana jauh lebih selesa dari sem lepas yay. Hehehe apa lagi eh...haa also i got new classmates(tapi ada je yang classmate sem lepas) and also new lecturers laa of course. Cakap pasal lecturers, nak cakap jugak pasal my subjects that i took this sem. Omg programming weh programming.....i hate. Tak tau la nape i takleh nak adapt with this new subject(tapi bersyukur sangat because this sem je i have to learn programming yay alhamdulillah). And also i got circuits and measurements. Both of the subjects inshaAllah i boleh catch up lagi kot. tskkkkk. 

Ok now what's more. Maybe i'm too late to talk about my azam tahun baru but i do have my azam la. haha azam this year is i want to be better. To be a better me. A better princess to my parents. And also my azam is i want to forget all the pains i got in last year(sorry ni kes takleh move on la kot hmm) but it's ok i'll try my best to move on. One thing that i always bear in my mind is 

" And whosoever puts his trust in Allah, then He will suffice him"