Effort.

It's not that hard to take care of someone who you love. Nowadays, people tend to show off their love to the world, needing validation of a relationship but once they got the one they wanted, they stop showing the love, not to the world but to the one who needs it the most. Efforts matters a lot in a relationship. You tried so hard to get their attention and having them in your arms, so why once you've got them? We can lose everyone in a blink of an eye, they won't be yours forever once you stop making efforts to them. It's the simplest things we often miss, it's not that hard to keep someone in lives. Listen to them, ask them questions that could piqued their interest, or the things that they do, ask them how their day was,just listen. Learn to talk less about yourself and listen to what others have to say. Let them know you still care even you're busy. Make little gifts to them, only if you're sincere about it. You don't have to necessary buy expensive gifts, you can learn make them, even a little sticky notes with handwritten messages would mean the world to them. Remind them their beauty, how amazing they really are, make them feel good about themselves, make them love themselves more. Take their hand and guide them throughout life, steer them away from all the bad things and bring them closer to all things that brings good. Don't give up on each other, have faith that it it's meant to be, it will be. And you've done all those things and they still left you, then make them regret letting you go, start focusing on yourself. All you have to do is fix yourself, make yourself a better person and the right one will come to you right in time. Everyone in this world was made into existence with someone meant for them. If you have them in your life now, appreciate them,sherish them,take care of them,tream them right because some people never had the chance to truly experience it. It won't be now but someday you'll have that someone that will be willing to do all those things to you too. Don't break people,you won't know how much damage you can do just by breaking their hearts. What goes around,comes around.